‘Why has this happened to me? I have places to go. This is not my story’: Sonnar Murray-Brown on his life-changing accident
Sonnar Murray-Brown with his top horse Erlentanz TSF at his yard in the village of Bishop Norton near Tewkesbury in Gloucestershire in the UK on 13th November 2020
(Image credit: Peter Nixon)
Sonnar Murray-Brown knows more than most about making a comeback after accident and adversity. When the international grand prix dressage rider was on the cusp of his career, aged 20, he was involved in a horrific car accident that left him with two broken legs.
“We hit another vehicle head on at 60mph. I woke up on the side of the road and I didn’t realise at the time that I had broken both my legs. I was told they could get me walking again, but riding wouldn’t happen. My life came crashing down pretty hard,” he recalls, on episode 95 of The Horse & Hound Podcast.
“Two years after the crash I still had a non union fracture in my right femur and it just wasn’t healing. I was trying everything I possibly could. I decided to go on a quest to find a different surgeon, who was more specialised in lower limb fractures. I found Professor Michael Saleh, and I said I needed to get back riding, not thinking I actually would but not wanting to stop believing that I could. But really I just needed to get to a point where my leg wasn’t broken, so I could walk up the stairs. I was nearly 23, I’d had a broken leg for two years, and it was very frustrating. I needed to get to a point where I could live a life.”
“I was given a second chance to do something I loved, so I’m very lucky in that respect,” Sonnar says.
“It made me understand patience. When I broke my leg again in 2019, that was hard – it was tough mentally. I thought, how many more setbacks and blows can I take?
“I’ve definitely had my fair share of knocks but each has been different. It definitely does put your life into perspective when something major happens, like breaking both my legs. I was lying in bed aged 22, I couldn’t do anything for myself, and I thought, why has this happened to me? I have dreams to fulfill, places to go. This is not my story. But it was, and I definitely do believe things happen for a reason.
“Horses are a great leveller, one minute you’re up, one minute down,” he points out. “Some people have maybe more luck than others, but everyone has different challenges and journeys.
“The quote I always try to think about is ‘comparison is the killer of joy’. You’re on your own journey and you have to believe that if you have a plan and you have your goals and dreams it will happen. Whether it happens tomorrow or in two weeks or two years, it doesn’t matter.”
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