Despite a partner who is sceptical about the safety of horses, and not having a horse herself, Diana Rhodes set herself the challenge of taking up eventing this year

“At a time of life when I should really be curling up with Saga Magazine, I decided to tackle the item at the top of my bucket list — to take up eventing, having only ever ridden around one hunter trials about 25 years ago.

“I wasn’t even a horse owner when I embarked on my bucket-list challenge so my first task was to find a suitable horse — preferably one with more experience than me. With a partner who thinks horses are highly dangerous and unpredictable animals, and as a mother of two teenage children, I had promised to buy as safe a horse as I could find that could also get me round a BE90.

“So in August last year, five months into my search, I found My Amigo, a 16.1hh Irish sport horse produced by Libby Seed. Truth be known, I wasn’t sure I’d pluck up the courage to event, even at entry level, so I needed an uncomplicated horse who would be lovely to hack out too. ‘Amigo’ fitted the bill perfectly.

“A month after buying him, we went cross-country schooling at Boomerang in Wiltshire. Three of us set off with two horses and came back with a black eye (me), broken collarbone (my trainer) and sprained thumb (a friend). It was a bit of a baptism of fire and did nothing to reassure my partner about the level of risk involved, but suffice to say the mishaps were down to rider error.

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“I rode my first dressage test in December last year, swiftly followed by some arena eventing. I hadn’t set myself a time frame for my bucket-list eventing, but on 1 January 2017, the decision was made for me. I received a text from my super trainer Dan Griffiths, who runs the yard where I keep Amigo, saying, ‘I have sat down and had a look at the BE calendar for this season. I have taken it upon myself to plan some of your events. No excuses.’

“So Swalcliffe it was on 19 March, followed by Ascott-under-Wychwood, Chepstow and Calmsden. Amigo and I didn’t set the world alight, but we did finish every event. I am well and truly hooked and busily training and competing through the winter to aim for a more competitive second season.”

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